Welcome to LifebyLala

Join me on a journey where faith meets the everyday chaos of life as a 30-something woman. With God as my guide, I’m sharing real stories of highs, lows, and the in-betweens—because growth isn’t always graceful, but it’s always worth it. Let’s navigate this wild ride together!

Lala's Life-isms

  •  No matter how head over heels you are for someone, there’s no return policy on love you’re not guaranteed they’ll feel the same!
  • You can either pray, or you can worry, just don’t try multitasking!
  • God will never fail. Na man dey worry!
  • Show me your friends, and I'll tell you who you are or at least what drama you've been surviving!
  • They say, 'make hay while the sun shines,' but I say 'anytime you wake up is your morning seize it!
  • 'It could never be me’ never say never, because life has a funny way of proving you wrong twice over!
  • There’s light at the end of every tunnel just don’t trip over the obstacles in between!
  • It might take a while, but even a stammerer will get his last name out proof that patience pays off!
  • Most people aren’t careless with their actions, they’re calculated. Repeated behavior is proof of intent, not an accident.
  • Don't let every barking dog derail your journey keep moving; not every noise deserves your attention
  • Every friend who passes through your life is a reminder that love exists in many forms and seasons.
17 August 2025
27 July 2025

Don't Forget! People Know Exactly What They’re Doing

One of the things I’ve learned is this: most people know exactly what they’re doing. Their actions are rarely random. When someone is mean, manipulative, entitled, or inconsiderate, it’s often not a slip-up, it’s a choice. Even if they deny it, deep down, they’re usually aware of how they’re treating others.

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19 June 2025
11 May 2025
8 March 2025
25 February 2025

Chasing Dreams Unapologetically

One of my favorite things to do is scroll through Instagram, watching videos of people who built their businesses from scratch and are now thriving. I’m inspired by bloggers, influencers, entrepreneurs—people who are excelling in their fields. Every time I watch their journeys, I feel a spark of admiration and, honestly, a twinge of regret.

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9 February 2025
5 February 2025
30 January 2025

'A' for Accountability?

You know what never fails to baffle me? The sheer lack of accountability people have—not just to others, but even to themselves. Like, how do you mess up, act out, or treat someone poorly, and then just… pretend it never happened? No reflection, no remorse, just vibes!

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11 January 2025
5 January 2025
25 November 2024