Welcome to LifebyLala

Join me on a journey where faith meets the everyday chaos of life as a 30-something woman. With God as my guide, I’m sharing real stories of highs, lows, and the in-betweens—because growth isn’t always graceful, but it’s always worth it. Let’s navigate this wild ride together!

Lala's Life-isms

  •  No matter how head over heels you are, there’s no return policy on love—you’re not guaranteed they’ll feel the same!
  • You can either pray or you can worry—just don’t try multitasking!
  • God will never fail. Na man dey worry!
  • Show me your friends, and I'll tell you who you are—or at least what drama you've been surviving!
  • They say, 'make hay while the sun shines,' but I say 'anytime you wake up is your morning—seize it!
  • 'It could never be me’—never say never, because life has a funny way of proving you wrong twice over!
  • There’s light at the end of every tunnel—just don’t trip over the obstacles in between!
  • It might take a while, but even a stammerer will get his last name out—proof that patience pays off!
  • Don't let every barking dog derail your journey—keep moving; not every noise deserves your attention
8 March 2025
25 February 2025

Chasing Dreams Unapologetically

One of my favorite things to do is scroll through Instagram, watching videos of people who built their businesses from scratch and are now thriving. I’m inspired by bloggers, influencers, entrepreneurs—people who are excelling in their fields. Every time I watch their journeys, I feel a spark of admiration and, honestly, a twinge of regret.

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9 February 2025
5 February 2025
30 January 2025

'A' for Accountability?

You know what never fails to baffle me? The sheer lack of accountability people have—not just to others, but even to themselves. Like, how do you mess up, act out, or treat someone poorly, and then just… pretend it never happened? No reflection, no remorse, just vibes!

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11 January 2025
5 January 2025
25 November 2024
19 November 2024

Breaking the Silence: 5 Ways Men Can Seek Help and Thrive

Today, on International Men’s Day, we celebrate the resilience, strength, and sacrifices of men everywhere. Among the many touching stories shared about fathers, brothers, and sons, one common theme stands out: the unwavering commitment of men to show up for their families, often without ever asking for help.

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13 November 2024

Actions Speak Louder:How to Recognize True Genuineness in People

It’s easy for people to have good intentions; almost everyone starts off wanting to make a positive impression and meaning well. But over time, I’ve realized that good intentions mean little if they aren’t backed up by consistent actions. True genuineness shows up in what people do, not just what they say.

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10 November 2024

Understanding the Seasons of Friendship: Embracing Purpose Over Longevity

I've come to realize that the length of a friendship doesn’t necessarily equal its depth. Sure, I have friends like my best friend of over 20 years, and that’s a bond I cherish deeply. We’ve grown together, shared life’s ups and downs, and I believe she’s in my life for the long run. But I’ve also learned that not every friendship needs to carry that same weight.

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5 November 2024

Life is Short—Don’t Outgrow Your Joy

As I was clearing out my phone, I stumbled upon some old pictures from two or three years back. In every one, I’m dressed up, laughing, and living my best life—out at fun places, feeling vibrant, free, and completely alive. My first thought was, “Oh, look at me! When mama was a rolling stone!” Then it hit me—when did I stop being that person?

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