No such thing as 'Closure' in the stages of grief.

Someone once said, "There’s no such thing as closure in the stages of grief." And honestly, that hit deep.

We’re always searching for closure—chasing answers, waiting for an apology, hoping for an explanation that will somehow make everything make sense. But why do we believe we need closure before we can heal? Why do we put our healing on hold, waiting for someone else to give us permission to move forward?

The hard truth is this: most times, closure will never come. And we have to learn to be okay with that.

Maybe they’ll never explain why they left. Maybe you’ll never understand why they hurt you. Maybe you’ll never hear the I’m sorry you deserve. But does that mean you should stay stuck in your pain? Absolutely not.

Healing should begin the moment you recognize that you’ve been hurt—not when someone decides to explain themselves. Your healing is your responsibility. You don’t need closure to move forward; what you need is the decision to choose yourself.

Yes, closure is nice. But it’s not a requirement for healing. What truly matters is that you prioritize you. You decide that your peace, your happiness, and your future are worth more than waiting for answers that may never come.

So, if you’re waiting for closure before you heal—stop waiting. Choose yourself today. Move forward. Heal. Because at the end of the day, your healing matters more than anything else.