'A' for Accountability?

You know what never fails to baffle me? The sheer lack of accountability people have—not just to others, but even to themselves. Like, how do you mess up, act out, or treat someone poorly, and then just… pretend it never happened? No reflection, no remorse, just vibes!

Meanwhile, I’m over here, post-argument, running a full inquiry in my mind: Was I wrong? Could I have handled that better? Should I apologize? And if I truly care about the person, I do what any emotionally mature adult should—I own up to my mistakes and apologize. If I don’t, at the very least, I hold myself accountable and learn from the situation.

But here’s the part that really gets me: when people who have misbehaved, been disrespectful, or outright acted a fool suddenly want to waltz back into your life—without addressing what they did. No apology, no accountability, just a casual “Hey” or “Hello” message, like they’re creeping in through the back door of your life, hoping you won’t notice. Be. For. Real.

Listen, if you want to rebuild relationships, the formula is simple: take accountability, apologize, and move forward like a grown-up. No sneaky reappearances, no awkward small talk, just an honest acknowledgment of your actions.

It’s a new year, so let’s do better. Own your mistakes, say sorry when needed, and watch your relationships flourish. Life’s too short for emotional immaturity—grow, heal, and communicate like the amazing human you’re capable of being.

Now, go forth and be accountable!