I’m a traditional girl, and I always will be. There are just some things I believe should be done a certain way—like they’ve been done for ages. One of those things? Asking a woman out.
Listen, if you’re a guy and you find a woman attractive, and you want to get to know her, say it. It’s not rocket science. These days, people are out here saying women should “shoot their shot” or that she can just hang around until things become official. Some even believe a man doesn’t need to actually say he’s interested—he can just show it and voilà, relationship status unlocked.
Well, to each their own. If that works for some people, great. But not for me.
For me, it’s very simple:
You like me? Say so.
You want to get to know me? Say so.
You’re hoping we start dating? Say so.
What I won’t do is have this conversation with myself based on vague actions and mixed signals. No, sir. Be vocal or be gone. If you’re just lingering around, hoping I’ll magically figure it out, I’ll take it as a sign that you’re just a friend. And once you land in the friend zone? You’re staying there.
We’re adults. We should act like it. If you want something, speak up. I’m used to a man making the first move, so come correct or don’t come at all.
Or is this just me?
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