Finding Your Tribe: The Key to Thriving After Relocating

A few years back, I packed up my life and moved away from family and friends. Before I left, everyone was worried about how I’d handle being alone. But me? I wasn’t worried at all. I’m both an introvert and an extrovert, so I figured I’d be just fine. One minute I’m the life of the party, and the next, I’m in full-on “hermit mode,” living my best life binge-watching Netflix or baking up a storm at home. So, when people kept asking, “Are you sure you’ll be okay?” I’d just wave them off with, “I’ll be fine!”

Turns out... I wasn’t entirely fine.

At first, it was rough. There were days when I really needed someone to talk to, and while calling my family miles away was always an option, it just felt like too much. So, for a while, I just... existed. Alone. Eventually, though, I joined a small group of ladies and let me tell you – it was a total game-changer.

Here’s the thing: one piece of advice I wish someone had given me before I relocated is this – the moment you move, find a community. Seriously. Just do it. And I know some people get nervous about joining groups, but trust me, it’s worth it. The trick is to find the right fit.

What does “finding the right fit” mean? It means looking for a group of people who share your interests, hobbies, or goals. Love to travel? Join a travel group. Obsessed with the gym? Look for a community of fitness lovers. Into books? There’s definitely a book club for you. It’s all about connecting with people who get you.

Here’s why joining a community is a game-changer:

1. Support and friendship – You’ll meet people who have your back and who could end up becoming lifelong friends.
2. Connections – You might just find your next job, business partner, or mentor in a community. Networking, but way more fun!
3. Learning new things – Communities are full of diverse people, and you’ll find yourself picking up new skills, maybe even a new language or cultural insight.

Of course, it’s not just about what you get from a community – it’s about what you bring to it, too. Here are a few things to keep in mind:

• Be helpful – If someone in your community needs support, be there for them. Share your own skills and knowledge when you can.
• Be respectful – Communities thrive on respect. Be mindful of other people’s cultures, opinions, and space. Basically, don’t be “that person.”

So, how do you find the perfect community? It’s easier than you think: search online, ask your coworkers, tweet about your interests, or just keep your eyes peeled for local groups. And if you don’t find something that fits? Start your own! You’d be surprised how many people out there are looking for the same thing.

Trust me, once you find your tribe, you’ll wonder why you didn’t do it sooner.

Try it! Let me know how it goes!